My God, how the cheating spouse cries when he discovers that you are spying on him.

The outrage can be intense: “How dare you! I never thought you would stoop to that! How could you! How can there be trust in this relationship if you do that? This is none of your business; I don’t spy!” go behind your back! Now you know why I want to get away from you. How could I love someone who would do something like that to me? us and us

Unfaithful husbands and wives will not usually admit the duplicity of their clandestine behavior. But they make you pass as the villain if you use detective work to uncover the truth. It doesn’t make sense, but then again, there’s not much about infidelity bordering on sanity.

Are you a character doubly corrupt and morally hell-bent on destroying the integrity of a relationship through espionage? Of course not. The integrity of the relationship has been destroyed through the extramarital affair. The affair shattered promises and mocked the vows you two made.

You clearly saw the signs of a cheating spouse. The affair invaded the domain of her marriage and broke down his protective boundaries. Marital infidelity broke the marriage contract; It was the act of treason. Espionage does not harm marriage. It is an attempt to seek the truth and resolve pain and disappointment.

Spying is often used to understand the reality of the situation. His intention is to find the truth. Only the truth can provide a foundation from which to begin to resolve the hurt, the pain, and forge direction for the marriage and allow each person in the marriage to achieve health and sanity.