Male chastity and orgasm denial can definitely be beneficial to a marriage. There’s no doubt.

But for any man or woman accessing the Internet for the first time with the intention of learning more about it from a safe, sane, and rational point of view, the outlook is pretty bleak.

Why?

Because most of what you will find is fiction. Some of it is accurately labeled as such, and there is no damage or missing there. But much of this is presented as fact, even though it is plainly ridiculous and, to many, extremely unpleasant.

This is especially true for women who may have been asked by their husbands to view male chastity as a legitimate lifestyle and therefore look online for sources of information to help them understand their husbands’ wishes.

So here I am going to debunk what I have discovered to be the three most common myths and misconceptions about male chastity.

Myth #1: It is the myth that male chastity is capable of mending a broken marriage. This is absolutely false and one of the most dangerous male chastity lifestyle myths out there, in my opinion, because believing it can cause many, many more problems than you already have.

Chastity brings men and women closer together. Is about growing the levels of intimacy you enjoy. And if your marriage is broken and your wife avoids all contact with you because she gives you goosebumps, then ask her to adopt a lifestyle designed to increase sexual and emotional contact and connection is a course of action that is likely to blow up spectacularly in your face.

If your marriage is strong but has perhaps just lost its luster, then male chastity is an option that both of you could benefit from exploring; But if it’s weak and full of cracks and bad feelings, then you’re probably better off getting professional help with your marriage.

Myth #2: It’s the myth that your man wants to be a submissive doormat in panties and you use and abuse him. While it is undeniably true that this is true for some men, it is actually very rare.

Most men seeking chastity for their wives are looking for two things: to enhance physical and emotional intimacy; and the sheer pleasure they get from the sensation of long-term orgasm denial, teasing, and male chastity.

Myth #3: it’s the myth that male chastity is right for all men and women (some people claim it’s a woman’s “right” to “impose” it on her husband).

This is also absolutely false. male chastity is almost always male-driven, and it’s typically a fantasy you’ll have had since you first discovered the opposite sex. But for men who don’t have the fantasy, it’s highly unlikely that their women will be able to persuade them to give it a try.

As a result, there are very, very few women as a proportion of the population who walk around seeking to lock their men in chastity and deny their orgasms. It’s not what chastity-driven men want to hear, but it is the truth.

And overriding this is the simple fact that it is impossible for a woman to force a man to be chastity. The stories you hear about “blackmail” and “she’ll divorce me if she doesn’t” are lies, plain and simple.

male chastity is forever something you do with not a man a to the.

It’s a great lifestyle, to be sure, but to get the most out of it, you really need to be informed and armed with the facts, so that when you approach your Beloved, you can answer her questions and reassure her.