How to Kiss, Good Tips for Your First Time: Want to get an amazing first kiss with the girl / boy of your dreams? It really is not that difficult. All it takes is a little confidence and a little knowledge to make sure your first kiss is something to remember for the rest of your life. I know that sometimes it can be frustrating and annoying not being able to find the confidence to kiss someone, but follow my advice and your problems will disappear.

So here you are, snuggled up with someone special, and you can’t stop thinking about kissing him. Relax! It’s easy enough to come up with a simple plan that will put you on the path to gaping stardom.

1. Make sure you are in a position where their faces can be easily reached without stretching or twisting unnecessarily.

2. Try to get a moment where you can look them in the eye. Perhaps expect a break in the conversation. Look them in the eye and smile. If they smile back at you, you’re allowed to move on.

3. Lean forward slightly, decreasing the distance between the two of you. You want your date to suddenly stop thinking about what they WERE thinking and start thinking about kissing you. Don’t lean too far. You’re not going for that kiss yet.

Four. Use one free hand to cup your chin or just place two fingers under it slightly. Pretend you want to pull them towards you with your hand (very gently). They must come willingly, if they are ready to be kissed. This is the most important step in making a smooth transition to kissing.

5. Bring your face forward and see if they start to close their eyes, lean toward you, or tilt their head. Make sure your noses are not on a collision course.

6. Don’t close your eyes until just before making contact with your lips. Make the kiss soft and gentle. Keep your lips slightly parted and gently press them against your partner’s.

7. After a second, step back and open your eyes. Congratulations! You just received your first kiss! Now you can decide if you want to start kissing.

The hardest part of this whole process is preparing for the situation and finding the confidence to begin steps 1-3. I have discovered an easy line that makes it much easier. Keep reading!