Imagine that you were aware of some secret words that could unleash the most intimate passions of a woman. And simply by sprinkling those words into here-are-there sentences you could make her want you as the man of her dreams, overcoming all barriers about things like appearance, age, social status, or wealth.

Sounds like a miracle? It’s not. Let me give you the secret and then I’ll show you how to use it.

Every woman has certain internal values ​​by which she will judge a man. They are the yardsticks she uses to decide if she will give up or look for someone better.

These values ​​are emotional and deeply buried. They are a mixture of all those dreams and fantasies of the ideal man of hers that she began to put together since she was a teenager.

They are made up of sights, sounds, and feelings, and are grouped with specific “labels”—words like “trust, sensitivity, caring, togetherness, fun, adventure,” and so on.

The important thing is that each woman has an emotional relationship with ‘her’ particular words. So ‘sensitivity’ is not necessarily the same as ‘being sensitive’; ‘courage’ is not necessarily the same as ‘being brave’.

Now here’s the point. When you discover her particular emotionally charged words, and return those very words to her as labels to describe YOU, she will begin to see you as the man she has been waiting for.

It is logical, because you will be taking advantage of their most intimate emotions. And these will always override any logical, deliberate and reasoned thinking.

So how do you find out their particular words? Simple. Put yourself in a state of close relationship with her and then ask her.

Let me give you a specific question. Then we’ll take a look at how you can use it, and what you need to make sure you do when you ask for it.

Focus intensely on her and say, “What kind of qualities do you value most in a man?”

Now, he will most likely say three or four different things to you: words like caring, considerate, passionate, sincere.

Or he can give you a sentence: “I think it’s very important for a man to be CARING and CONSIDERATE. And I really like a man who is PASSIONATE and SINCERE.”

Now you have them. These are your criteria, or values. You should make a mental note of the EXACT words you use, and preferably the order in which you use them.

Treat them like gold. They are the keys that will fully unlock your affections. And they will be like music to your ears, because they are YOUR words, YOUR hot spots.

Next step: how do you use them? Simple. Tell them as words to describe yourself.

You have to get a little creative here because you can’t start slapping her over the head with them. Use them one at a time, and preferably in YOUR order.

Take the first – BEWARE. Maybe you could put it in a sentence where, maybe, you’re quoting someone else describing yourself.

“You know, yesterday I was having a heart-to-heart with one of the girls at work over coffee, and she really made me think of myself when, out of the blue, she told me that she thought I was a very CARING person… .”

The same with the others. “I got a letter from my mom yesterday, she’s a very THOUGHTFUL person. I guess it’s something she instilled in me as a kid… I did this quiz in a magazine the other day, and you know what? She said I’m a very thoughtful person. PASSIONATE… You know, I can’t stand fake people. For me, being TRUTHFUL with others is a very important quality…”

You will find that she soon begins to melt in his arms because you are bringing him back to his exact values. And this will start to happen much sooner than you think.

She will not be able to avoid this. You’ll unlock all those dreams she ever had about the handsome prince who swept her away. And when you get those deep emotional triggers to work for you, she’ll soon fade away.

Here are some important tips.

When you speak back, be subtle. Don’t start throwing them into your sentences right away, otherwise they might get suspicious. Resubmit them later, after you’ve gone through several subject changes, or even wait until the next appointment.

And don’t use them all in one sentence. Apply one here and there when appropriate. Above all, don’t start throwing them like you’re making an election speech. Slide them discreetly and indirectly to encourage him to pick them up as clues.

And please make sure you’re on the same page, both when you ask the question and when you speak back. It’s not good if you’re still in the flirting stage because you’re dealing with emotional stuff here. So if you’re still cracking jokes, call it quits for now.

Above all, don’t underestimate the value of this until you try it and see how fast and effective it can be.