Breaking up is hard and missing your ex boyfriend is even harder. Sometimes we break down in a moment of rage and cannot realize the consequences of our actions. We feel sorry after making some horrible mistakes and then we feel like we want to get back to our loved ones.

Our loved ones began to hate us for the mistake we had made. What should we do in this case?

“I love my ex but he hates me” is a delicate situation. On the one hand, some people say that hate is the other side of love. If you didn’t break your ex’s heart, then he won’t hate you. But on the other hand, you are not so sure that your ex-boyfriend hates you. How can you be sure of something that is buried deep in the heart?

Anyway, if you can’t forget about your ex, you have to try your chances to get back with him.

The first thing you have to do to reconcile with your ex is to eliminate the reasons that led to the breakup. If something went wrong in our lives, the first thing we do is look for the root cause and eliminate it. Ask yourself and be honest, after finding the correct answers, try to fix yourself from the inside.

On the other hand, you should also find the things that led to your connection from the beginning. Find out why he loved you and what attracted him to you in the first place. Try to get what you have lost from the moment he admired you to the breakup. You will relive your life and enrich your experience.

Don’t stand still in the breaking wind. Try to fill the void in your emotional life with new, interesting, and fun activities. Restore your social life and call old friends. Get noticed in your social circles and volunteer for a charitable cause.

Hatred cannot be fought with hatred. You can only fight hate with love. Smile at your ex, give him a word of support, be supportive if he has a problem, ask him about him, share good ideas, and try to put a smile on his face. At last, if he connects you with good and sweet memories, his idea will change unconsciously. Instead of hating you, he will start to miss you and miss all the feelings that you bring him.