I once heard that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So I ask how crazy am I? How many of us get stuck in a rut in a pattern and can’t understand and wonder why things never change? We become like those hamsters in the wheel of life. We do more, we run more, but we can never get off the wheel to change our patterns. Getting off the wheel of madness would mean changing, reflecting on oneself and finding out “why” we are in this madness mode and who it serves. In relationships, at work, in everyday life – we get into these relationships and the pattern is that everything is going great for 6 weeks, 3 months and then we feel like things are falling apart – the pattern comes back, we feel like we’re not . being treated as we should.

We complain about it, we don’t like how it feels, but we still continue the dance of madness. At work the same thing, a co-worker treats us unfairly – we feel treated unfairly but we say nothing to correct this behavior and live in our TRUTH, but we hope that they will not treat us like this again. What are the chances that the crazy pattern will continue? I would say that the possibilities are great. You ask how we stop the pattern? How do we get out of the hamster wheel? Speaking our TRUTH, affirming that the bosses no longer serve us and that we wish to end the madness; The madness. We can say these words in a kind and gentle way so that we are understood and taken seriously.

We must first recognize and reflect on our patterns; this is the hardest thing to do as it requires self-reflection. Once we recognize the pattern, the abuse, then we can step off the wheel of madness and live in peace once again. Peace is what I wish for each one of you!

Remember, may today’s possibilities excite us all!